GETTING RID OF THE CHAFF.

What would we do without each other in the daily struggles of this energy draining life. We are set apart from all the other species on earth by the way we conduct ourselves amongst each other as well as the kind of relations we have with each other. It is quite something, to see two total strangers who out of nowhere decide to have a connection in the form of a friendship. They go to drink together, hang out at parties, go for dinners and so forth, without as much as a care in the world.

Later on emotions get involved & grow to the intensity of getting into relationships, marriage & such like human based connections. We bond in such a state that we can’t do without the other in our life. The human nature creates a feeling of togetherness when we are with someone who we value & clutch close at heart. Such that if that person is not near, a void is left in our hearts. Look at me blubbering about the matters of the heart, what do I really know.

Anyway back to what inspired this train of thoughts, losing friends or companions along the corridors of human bonding. Seriously what the hell is this madness! There comes a time when we feel it is better to be by ourselves than with someone we have grown fond of, it confuses me with all this mixed emotions in the air it will surely be the end of us. We should not fetter cause when God was thinking of how we should live, He knew we would learn how to man-up or woman-up (if there is such a word!).

Once the bonds that held us together start to strain & rip apart that is a red flag, warning us that we need to either work on renewing out bonds or let go of the other person. Here is a fact of life, no one is meant to be alone but at times the circumstances will not allow two to tango. Choices will have to be made, whether to try and fix things or call it quits. We are all masters of our own voyage, the question is will we let the wind fill our sails and take us to a distant land or be dragged about?

If and when we  start to lose those whom we cherish, don’t be discouraged but be strengthened by the mere fact that better days are ahead of you. Once our social bind starts to dwindle don’t be disheartened a greater tribulation is upon you. Do not run after those who have left, for those who have walked out of your life have only but created more room for those who matter to walk in.