ME-SPONSIBLE.

In this time and age your actions are your own responsibility and not those of the society. All that you do is up-to you and the consequences that come with it are all on you. We no longer live in a community that is responsible for our happiness, life and being. It is your sole duty to be me-sponsible and not just for the sake of humanity but for the little dignity that is left in you. You are your own responsibility and no one is meant to be carrying around your burdens except yourself.

Therefore in all that you do, try and remember that everyone around you has their own luggage which is weighing them down. Someone might ask what is me-sponsible and what does it mean. Let me start from the beginning. Me-sponsible is a word which was formulated to mean the act of been responsible for ones actions, behaviour as well as conduct. It dates back to when you came of age and were considered an adult by your peers as well as your guardians or parents.

It was meant to state that for the sake of your own happiness, health and well being is all up-to you. So that means that if you want to be happy it is dependent on you and not those around you. How your live your life is reliant on you, is is important to know that it’s not your responsibility to want the life, that others want for you. You are not responsible for what people think about you, but you are responsible for what you give them to think about you.

Making bad decisions is part of the routine of life, but blaming others for you bad decision is a sign of lack of maturity and confidence in oneself. The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self respect springs. I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty. You must take personal responsibility for all that you do. You can’t change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.

It is easy to ignore responsibility when one is only an intermediate link in a chain of action. Sometimes I have to remind myself that I don’t have to do what everyone else is doing. Never sacrifice who you are just because someone else has a problem with it. Stick to been you and you will have a more happier and healthier life. Don’t be embarrassed by who you are, people will and shall continue judging you no matter what you do.