BUSY FOR WHO?

"I am busy, I don't know if I would be able to make it but I will see what I can do". When those words escaped from your lips, did you really mean them or you just thought they would sound more sweet in the ears of the recipient? There you are making promises that you very well know you won't fulfill. Letting loose a torrent of words with no weight behind them.

I am not condemning you, just pointing out a truth we don't like being brought to the light. We are quite a hypocritical people, making others feel special in our eyes yet we are grounding them underfoot. Well, to each his or her own would be what I would have said but not today. If you don't have time for others, just simply say it as it is. This game of eeny meeny miny moe, would not do. 

We can't keep on playing around with people's feelings like some guitar. Strumming their feelings every way we desire & saying to ourselves, "consequences be damned". How would you feel if someone goes back on their word on something you were banking on. You would feel betrayed, like a hole being ripped out of your heart. You have a choice to make & stand by it. You as an individual need to mean what you say  & say what you mean. 

There are no two ways about it, you are either in or you are out, no in between. It may seem like much to ask of you, but you need to take ask yourself why am I doing this. Look around you, what do you see. How are the words that you utter or the time given affecting those whom may rely on you to give them support in their time of need. As it is said, a friend in need is a friend indeed.

Well then, you are the decider of the people whom you give your time. If you can't be there for others, just make a clear stand on it so that it shall be well known. We are beings of a unique mindset that we end up filled with bile towards each other in our every day lives. So selfish we are with our time for others that we lie through clenched teeth. That being so, we need to get our head right & act right.

If people matter to you, no matter what, you will always create time for them. That is just my belief, you are never to busy for those whom you consider worthy of your time.