RELATIONSHIP GOALS.

 

Roses are red, violets are blue. 

My love for you, is pure & true. 

A journey for two, is blessed & so are you. 

A world filled with awe, am perplexed by you.  

There you are the love of my life, in wonder I stare.

Engulfed in your sweet fragrance, my heart beats twice. 

What a wonder that in the life we live, each minute alive is a precious gift. Given to us in plenty that if taken for granted it is only us who will end up being in a losing battle. No man or woman is meant to be an island & thus the need to have a partner whom you share life with. Each & every one of us has an inner desire to have someone in our life whom we can love & who in turn can love us (cupid style).

Look am no love guru nor am I some relationship expert but what I do have is some little bit of information about the shenanigans of the workings of the heart affairs. It may not mean much to you, but hey I am not perfect. I am just the ordinary version of your every day individual (now look you are there wondering to yourself, what the hell is this now!). Simply put, you are not here to live all alone, look at the story of Romeo & Juliet, though it had a tragic end but the composition would leave you all teary.

Now let us get engrossed in this heart felt journey to re-discover ourselves. I am guessing that at the time you have that one special person whom you consider as your universe & that none can compare. I applaud you for finding yourself or chancing upon a mate to embark on the journey of coupling. In the first days of your relationship, I believe things looked all flowery & were running smooth like butter. It was all laughs, giggles, intimate moments, dinners, outings & so forth (you know what I mean, am sure you can recall them).

Then all of a sudden it started to reduced. There came moments of arguments, less talking, distance in between, cold shoulders, mood swings & so on. Don't worry, these are all part of living as nothing is ever perfect. There will always be those moments you will feel like tearing each other apart (it will be the aaargh moment). Don't fret, even if the sky is covered in dark clouds the sun is still shining bright & will pop up when they pass.

Always remember that there will be ups & downs in your union. What matters the most is, how do the both of you handle it without losing out. For if God is for you, who can be against you (that is just my belief, you have your own free will). Not every action in your life requires a reaction, you can chill out & ride the storm together. For you are meant to be the ying to his or her yang (or something like that, I believe you get my drift).

Keep in mind that, no matter what the world throws at you, you can overcome it. If your mate has your back & you have his or hers, you will become an unstoppable force. Leave the blame games to the immature & those of childish tendencies, it is not your place to reside.

"When a man truly loves a woman, she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly loves a man, she becomes his strength. This is called exchange of power".