What a privilege & honour it was to host the president of the United States within our colourful borders. Who would have thought that one day a sitting president, the world's most powerful man will make a visit to our country. It indeed was an eye opener, an insight to how the West views us in our shenanigans.
That being so, if you ever followed the life of POTUS, you will see that his wife the First Lady has always been beside her main man. Even our own president, his wife has stood by him ever since time immemorial. It is clear to see that the women this men chose to have in their lives, made their lives more fulfilled & significant.
Are you seeing the trend here, the kind of woman you have in your life can either mean your down fall or your rise like the Phoenix from the ashes. Now I addres the women reading this, are you lifting your man, supporting him or are you just there for the ride? Don't answer me, just think about it & see where you fall.
Am not saying all men are focused with life but some do have visions & dreams which they wish to realize. It is all a matter of getting your priorities right.One may want his lady to be there for him, but you also need to show her that you are worth her energy not just to be a leech clinging on & draining all her strength.
This is where you must device a plan of how you want to have your future looking like. You as a man have a responsibility of giving your lady something to respect, cherish & defend. Include her in some of your vital ideas, they may seem silly but you would be surprised that she is willing to go the extra mile with you.
Ladies though a lee way is provided, reason with your man to fortify a logical future that suits both your needs, wants & dreams. Let us be each others pillar of strength through the trying times & know that we are meant to be there for each other. The key of making it in life is by setting down goals & ways of achieving those goals.
Have a small book where you write those dreams you wish to fulfill. They may seem absurd, but you will be surprised when they start getting manifested in reality. Tick them off one by one as they get realized & materialize into a reakity. Just don't leave your woman behind, she may offer some insight you may have not thought of & come up with a brilliant plan which would be both fruitful & fulfilling.
Let it be that the woman that is in your life, is the flame that ignites your fire.
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