COMING OF AGE.

 

Hi there, I do hope your week has been productive so far.  I have a question for you to contemplate on. How do we face these astrocities of life that make each day a living hell, leaving you bruised & scarred for life?  Think about it for a minute or just take all the time you need to find out the answer then reflect on yourself, how far you have come & what you had to undergo to get where you are right now. 

Adulthood is a stage in life that has its own unique feel, for not all who are adults are mature & not all who are mature are adults. It is indeed quite a discovery that maturity doesn't necessarily come with age. One may have grown old but being mature doesn't just come automatically like breathing. All that I do know is that though the times may be catching up with us how we develop mentally is dependant on us. 

We are not all going to realise our capacity to actualise the reality of having a well informed train of thought. Our backgrounds differ & they way in which each & everyone of us is raised is quite distinct. I have come to appreciate the fact that I can make mistakes which are quite costly & that the prudent thing to do in such circumstances is to man up & own my faults. Hiding behind a sense of seniority & self exaltation will not get you nowhere. 

Thus if you are in the wrong, it is vital to seek for forgiveness & find a way to amend for the wrongs done. We all need each other to make it in this life. It may not seem to you like such a crucial thing but what I have come to learn is that no matter who you are, one day or other you will need a stepping stone to get to where you desire. We all need to remember one very important fact & that is we need to listen more & talk less. 

This will make you be able to understand where someone is coming from & the path upon which they are taking to reach their destination. We are meant to never judge a book by its cover unless we have read the contents within its pages. Thought of the day if I may. When you have made a mistake don't do the blame game rather own up to it. It is worthwhile to lend your ears to others for that is why we have two ears and one month. This was by design so that we can listen more & talk less.