NO LOOKING BACK.

 

 

As Lots wife looked behind her, she all of a sudden turned into a pillar of salt just like that (snaps fingers). The warning from God had been quite clear, "I will burn down Sodom & Gomorrah, get out & under no circumstance should you look back". Well, here we are with a being turned into a pillar of salt, what a shame! Such a life wasted out of the curiosity of the events of the happenings behind her. Hello there, let me re-introduce myself & now take you forward into the on-goings in the present moment. This is that time when you are trying to contemplate as to why your life has turned out the way it has (hey, don't look at me, I have no clue how it is). Fear not, as one of the revelations I have had is that everything happens for a reason.

Look at you now, shaking your head & going, "ooh he has completely lost his mind, I am quite sure he was dropped as a baby or that something just broke in him (or something sinister like that)". Just be assured, there is a possibility am not in my right senses but so what! Why are we so engrossed in the events that took place in our former lives that we become like zombies, slow to think & hesitant to act. This is the day that indeed the Lord has made & we shall rejoice & be glad in it. Why do I say this, because each moment that you are up & about doesn't just happen out of the blue. You came to this world to fulfill a specific purpose & not to keep on drooling over your chaotic past which all along keeps on dragging you behind.

You need to rise up to the occasion & just say, "enough of this non-sense, I deserve better than what my dark past is trying to make stick on me like glue". How do you do this: well for starters you can start by having a simple mantra which you can recite to yourself on a daily basis. An example would be, "I am blessed & highly favoured". The reason for this is to break those rattling chains that are holding you back from being a better version of yourself. The next step would be to get rid of that which is assorted with your past, like a dismissal letter from work. This will always remind you that on that fateful day your means of earning a living were quashed. Another step would be to dissociate with individuals who keep on bring up your past like a flag flying high on a post.

"Never ever let your past define you, it was meant to be a lesson & not a life sentence".

RELATIONSHIP GOALS.

 

Roses are red, violets are blue. 

My love for you, is pure & true. 

A journey for two, is blessed & so are you. 

A world filled with awe, am perplexed by you.  

There you are the love of my life, in wonder I stare.

Engulfed in your sweet fragrance, my heart beats twice. 

What a wonder that in the life we live, each minute alive is a precious gift. Given to us in plenty that if taken for granted it is only us who will end up being in a losing battle. No man or woman is meant to be an island & thus the need to have a partner whom you share life with. Each & every one of us has an inner desire to have someone in our life whom we can love & who in turn can love us (cupid style).

Look am no love guru nor am I some relationship expert but what I do have is some little bit of information about the shenanigans of the workings of the heart affairs. It may not mean much to you, but hey I am not perfect. I am just the ordinary version of your every day individual (now look you are there wondering to yourself, what the hell is this now!). Simply put, you are not here to live all alone, look at the story of Romeo & Juliet, though it had a tragic end but the composition would leave you all teary.

Now let us get engrossed in this heart felt journey to re-discover ourselves. I am guessing that at the time you have that one special person whom you consider as your universe & that none can compare. I applaud you for finding yourself or chancing upon a mate to embark on the journey of coupling. In the first days of your relationship, I believe things looked all flowery & were running smooth like butter. It was all laughs, giggles, intimate moments, dinners, outings & so forth (you know what I mean, am sure you can recall them).

Then all of a sudden it started to reduced. There came moments of arguments, less talking, distance in between, cold shoulders, mood swings & so on. Don't worry, these are all part of living as nothing is ever perfect. There will always be those moments you will feel like tearing each other apart (it will be the aaargh moment). Don't fret, even if the sky is covered in dark clouds the sun is still shining bright & will pop up when they pass.

Always remember that there will be ups & downs in your union. What matters the most is, how do the both of you handle it without losing out. For if God is for you, who can be against you (that is just my belief, you have your own free will). Not every action in your life requires a reaction, you can chill out & ride the storm together. For you are meant to be the ying to his or her yang (or something like that, I believe you get my drift).

Keep in mind that, no matter what the world throws at you, you can overcome it. If your mate has your back & you have his or hers, you will become an unstoppable force. Leave the blame games to the immature & those of childish tendencies, it is not your place to reside.

"When a man truly loves a woman, she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly loves a man, she becomes his strength. This is called exchange of power".